Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-99.168.121.104-20130301035337/@comment-198.35.56.10-20170112190323

To get the questline, you may be able to get around the bug. Take her with you as a follower. Go to another location(away from your home with her, I suggest the Underforge), then release her as a follower. Talk to her before she leaves and heads home. Get the radiant quest from her(if not the correct dialogue, exit the dialogue, ask her to follow you, command her to wait, leave the area, come back in, release her again, talk and check for the totem quest, repeat until it's the right quest). I had to do something similar because I made her my steward(my housecarl had an unfoutunate accident when he "fell" from High Hrothgar).