Board Thread:Off Topic/@comment-24404040-20131227044813/@comment-72.166.11.101-20141102152530

I don't know if this makes any difference, but all three of his children have dark hair, Balgruuf and Gerdur have blonde hair, it isn't possible. Gerdur might have been his wife, or lover at some time, but not the mother of his children. Maybe he was involved with other women during his marriage, given the possibility that he was once married to Gerdur, but it just doesn't make sense to me. But anyway, Gerdur is married to Hod, and the have a son together, but I won't roll out the possibility of them having some sort of relationship at some point in time..

Oddly enough, though, nobody ever mentions a spouse or the mother of his children. Maybe he was never married, just foolish.