User blog comment:HaafingarGuard/My Parents Won't Let Me Play Oblivion/@comment-3028926-20120626230138

Just try and talk it out calmly. Ask them if they feel the violence is having a negative affect on you, and if it isn't the violence, what is? Try and work out a compromise, show them that the violence isn't affecting you.

If that doesn't work, you could try switching from defense to offense, as some of the comments on this page suggest.

Trust me, if you can show them the games aren't negatively affecting you in any way (even not getting outside enough (parents get picky about that)) they'll let you play. I wasn't allowed to play M games for a while, but when my parents finally let me get one M game (an old one, so they weren't worried about the blood because of the bad graphics), they saw that it wasn't negatively affecting me (it was Mortal Kombat 4) and felt I was old enough for M games, and now I'm allowed to play alot of them (not every single one of them, obviously).