Board Thread:Skyrim/@comment-108.6.236.58-20170110172852/@comment-4564061-20170110174443

I think the best solution is to make sure you speak to your spouse as soon as possible after the wedding ceremony. At that point you can instruct them as to which home you would like them to live in. Otherwise you may be able to find them and tell them where you would like to move to. Good Luck.