User blog comment:JesseJames911/Dead Wife - No Letter??/@comment-124.177.127.134-20111130162213

I have encountered the exact same problem, I used the summon lightning storm shout to kill a dragon and the shout killed my wife. I waited 10 days and never got a letter and I can't remarry. I went back and looked for her body but it's not there anymore. She died at Bonestrew Shrine south of Windhelm.