Faendal? He's also a wood elf and loves Archery.
However, he can only be married via a mod or console commands. I'm so used to PC games that I forget not every character is marriageable unless you are on PC.
Possibly Vorstag, or Derkeethus,
hmm Derkeethus has a nice quote when asked interestied in me? but what about Vorstag?