So after the civil war quest line Elisif just disappeared, when I entered the blue palace she was leaving so I waited a day she wasn't there then I waited another still not there if she's in the place where all the old jarls (imperial jarls) are tell me where to find that and if she is in-fact there.
The old imperial Jarls are all downstairrs at the blue palace upon entry take the stairs to your left, she might be there, maybe there is also a slight chance she moved to castle dour for some freakish reason, all of ulfrics old jarls are at the long table in front of him in case you really can't find her and decide to go freaky on your search.
It might also help to find a quest(line) in which you have to talk to her in which case the quest marker might point you directly to her.
i need to talk to elisif but i have two quest markers for her.. on my map, it says she is near bleakwind basin, but she is not there. and when i im in first person, actually playing the game, the questmarker says she is in the blue palace, even though its not on the map, nor is she there. help.